How we cite our quotes: (Part.Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #7
Mariam saw now the sacrifices a mother made. Decency was but one. (3.39.25)
Again, we see that the women of the novel are rarely recognized for their sacrifices. Mariam realizes this, and the insight helps her make peace with her own mother. More interestingly, it highlights how Mariam and Laila become like mother and daughter themselves.
Quote #8
In Laila's dream, she and Mariam are out behind the toolshed digging again. But, this time, it's Aziza they're lowering into the ground. (3.40.63)
This dream comes soon after the Taliban begins raiding homes for illegal media. Mariam and Laila had recently buried their TV in the backyard, and Laila's dream of burying Aziza comes soon after. It reveals Laila's unease at being party to the Taliban's blatant oppression of women.
Quote #9
Had she ever been a deceitful wife? she asked herself. A complacent wife? A dishonorable woman? Discreditable? Vulgar? What harmful thing had she willfully done to this man to warrant his malice, his continual assaults, the relish with which he tormented her? (3.45.22)
As is often the case with victims of domestic violence, Mariam believes that she is somehow to blame for the abuse. It takes a long time—and an attempted murder—for Mariam to realize that it's not her fault. It's a powerful moment.