Language and Communication Quotes in The History of Love

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #7

So many words get lost. They leave the mouth and lose their courage, wandering aimlessly until they are swept into the gutter like dead leaves. [...]

There was a time when it wasn't uncommon to use a piece of string to guide words that otherwise might falter on the way to their destinations. (6.4, 6.5, 6.8)

This passage considers the possibility of language having volition, an agenda of its own. How does this change our understanding of human interaction?

Quote #8

It took me a moment. And then I realized the difference. He was speaking to me in Yiddish. (7.82)

Considering what Leo has previously told us about him and Bruno never speaking Yiddish, this can be read either as a sign of their coming together or drifting apart. (This gets even more complicated in light of the fact that Bruno doesn't really, you know, exist.)

Quote #9

It took seven languages to make me; it would be nice if I could have spoken just once. But I couldn't, so he leaned down and kissed me. (8.27)

Here "the language of love," so to speak, is used as a substitute for the language of words. That is, if Alma had been able to speak, then kissing would not have been an option. Does this mean the two are incompatible?